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Need….Motivation….NOW

June 10, 2009 · 1 Comment

It’s been… erm.. 2 months since my last post! DAMN!!! I really suck at blogging. Shame on me. Loads to blog about actually… tons of exciting stuff (exciting to me at least) happened… and YES! I will blog about it… Starting Now.

Let’s start with what Im feeling now… Shitty. Yeah.. pretty shitty. Mostly work related, some are caused by other factors, but yeah.. mostly its work. Works shitty.. yeah.. stinky and sucky (so dun try eating shit) <- lame o…. but thats how Im feeling now.. Lame… Lame… Shame… Mane… ish what the hell am I typing..

OK… i gotta learn this blogging thing all over again…. focus.. focus… focus..

Work.. why it sucks… more things to do… more responsibility… more ‘exposure’… this does NOT MEAN MORE MONEY!!!!!! nor does it mean more TIME!!!!!

Also… theres an issue of annoying ppl around. People just love to flock around my area for some reason.. ppl who dun belong! And it is so annoying… It annoys me.. I dont know why… maybe its stress mainly… making it much worst. Seeing annoying ppl right infront of me makes me feel crabby, especially when im trying to rush for some ‘life and death’ assignments this annoying bugger is there talking crap bugging the hell out of everyone.

OKAY… enough venting about work!!! Whats next..

Well my head hurts more lately… from all the focus im putting staring hard on the screen hoping that the paper im doing will miraculously be done. Wait…. screeeeeccchh… this is about work again! ARGH!! STOP! ITS MADNESS…

 

OK.. FOCUS.. something else now pls…

Vacations! YAY!!!! Thats the only thing that drags me through the week. Knowing that im gonna be chilling out somewhere happy giveme the motivation to wake up for work everyday! But not anymore… after 4 beach vacations this year… (in half a year)… I gotta stop. Saving up money for Shanghai + beijing 2 weeks break next year. :(   I hate being poor! Hate having to slave at work and do crap for little money thats going into the vacation fun. Work Sucks! Argh… somehow i cant stop crapping about work here.. what the f is wrong… FINE! Im stopping… BYE

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In the pressure cooker…

April 23, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Why is it that 4 months after the wedding everyone is asking “any buns in the over yet?”

What is the  ideal time frame to chill and enjoy couplehood before a 3rd party butts in…. (3rd party being the baby.. not another bitch)

Ppl have been non stop hinting and telling me point blank go make one… why dont they make one and tell me how it goes?

Those who did made one.. or many…  ok.. you can bug me to make one.

So, back to the pressure cooker… even operating the pressure cooker has its process right? You dont turn it on right away.. theres washing and drying, putting ingredients in, putting hot boiling water in… THEN you turn it on!  SO PEOPLE! where is your process???? Start step one.. brain washing me 1st, then put some nice ideas in my head then you have the right to watch me drown in the hot soup ok!!! If you dont even bother to see me get thru these processes, you have no right to bug me to fuck and get a bun popping in the oven!!!

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Honeymoon to Mauritius

April 6, 2009 · 2 Comments

Honeymoon was simply amazing!

Was so excited that I had very little sleep the day we were suppose to depart for Mauritius. Which was good actually, as 8 hours on the plane, sleep would make time past faster. We took a cab to the airport at 7 in the morning. Still sleepy and groggy, went to Air Mauritius check in counter and had a lovely surprise! We were awarded 2 FOC passes to the Golden Lounge! Yipppppeeeeeeeee!!!!

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All because I had the balls to raise my complains all the way to the CEO of Air Mauritius! (long story, they messed up my booking the week before my trip, I was pissed, shot emails every direction possible, even to consumer association <- Kiasu queen!) Well, outcome was superb eh… :P

 Golden lounge was nice. Real nice. Original plan was to have a quick breakfast at Burger King, well, this was way better. Had some nasi lemak, toast, eggs, bacon.. etc

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 Most of all, had champagne at 8am! YUM!! Way better than milk or juice for breakfast! Hahahaha

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Waited another half an hour or so, boarded the plane. Had good seats, couple seats, so naturally, mr long legs by the aisle, and curious shortie by the window. I needed a window view was I wanted to capture my first glimpse of Mauritius.

9 Hours is rather hard to past. But we had a pit stop at Spore, so we hop down and wander around the Changi Airport, and enjoyed the free wi-fi& computer there. J

On the plane, watched 2 movies, read few pages of my book, chit chat with Sayang, people watched, bugged the crew for drinks, snacks, just to annoy them, day dream.. everything but sleep! Brain was racing too fast to catch some sleep. Sigh….

Food was alright! Had Assam Fish & lady fingers with rice, and Sayang had Chinese noodles with chicken and vege. We had snacks too – mini pretzels which were yummy. And some bread and cheese as well. Drank loads of whisky and vodka, was wary of not going overboard, don’t want my 1st day of honeymoon to be in bed with a nasty hangover! :P

Finally… we are arriving!!!! My 1st view of my home for the next 7 days!

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We landed, checked out the duty free store, grab a Famous Grouse (whisky not Grey Grouse the vodka). Hunted for our luggage and headed out. Was greeted by our tour agent Mauri-Tour, guided us to a car and off we heard to Morne.  The trip took about an hour or so.

Along the way, I got excited about almost every thing new i see, and cant stop clicking. Got this amazing picture…. very National Geographic. :)

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Upon arriving, I was sure this was just the hotel for us. It was cozy, modern, warm and right at the end of the road, very secluded. Lobby was stylish, staffs greeted us warmly, served hot towels to freshen us up, and fruit punch. 

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Checked in to our rooms, was glad everything looking so lovely,  just perfect. But then we realized that the bathroom was leaking, tv wasn’t working and air cond wasn’t too cold, we demanded to be changed to another room. Thankfully, they were very accommodation, had a much better room with way  better view! J

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We wasted no time unpacking, rushed straight to check out the beach.  As soon as we sat down, looked at the view.. wow… simply amazing. Here I was thinking that the beaches in malaysia are really nice too, so I wont be spending much time by the beach, boy was I so wrong. The combination of mountain view with the open sea and clear blue skies, simply breathtaking. We sat there, quiet, feasting our eyes, treating our lungs to fresh sea breeze.

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We had to leave the beach for dinner… we had too… wanted to stay on but it was getting dark, and we were hungry!!!

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Dinner was alright. Rice, curry dishes, vege, potatoes, pumpkin mush, salad selection, bread, bbq lamb, some cakes and fruits! Basic buffet, but good enough for hungry folks like us. It tasted YUMMY! All of them. However, sadly, all nights the buffet was about the same, just an alternate choice of steak or lamb. Not that I am complaining, but towards the last day, wished there was a wider selection! :P

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We slept early that night, dead tired, with not much sleep the night before, long plane ride, was beat. Had a good night rest, and all ready for a long day of a journey to the east! J

Woke up really early the next morning, had a good breakfast at the hotel and headed out to explore the nearby towns, the  beautiful island of Ile Aux Cerf and a scenic route via the east coast. We went towards Black River, headed to Tamarin, went into Quatre Bornes, then Curepipe, then all the way to Flacq, where we took a jetty to the island. Along the way, we saw many interesting sights. Most of all, we saw many churches! Every twenty minutes driving we will driving we see a church! Very nice churches too! J

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 And Excitedly, tried some local food as well, whatever we see as we passed by those little towns.

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Ile Aux Cerf, was phenomenal. From far, we are able to see the white sandy beach and clear blue water. We practically ran into the island, grab a spot and undress. Plopped down on the beach mats and started to take in our surrounding. There were a lil bit too many people for our liking. But good for people watching. Especially those topless ones.. :P

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Hung out there for about 4 hours, read my book, few rounds of dipping in the water, catch a short nap and got hungry. So we ordered food from the only hotel there, carbonara, cost us freaking 12Euro! But well, we have no other choice. Apart from that freakishly expensive food (for us), everything else was good. J

Felt a bit sad to leave the island, but looking forward to exploring the east coast as well. We took a long drive through a scenic route via the east coast, heading back to Morne. Passed by many little towns a long the way, got lost a little, so stopped a few times to seek directions from the locals. Despite us speaking no French and them speaking little English, we manage to communicate well. Mauritians are extremely friendly and helpful people. After driving for about 2 hours, we finally got back to the hotel, tired and satisfied. Took a long shower, short nap and headed down for dinner. Dinner was steak with those usual dishes. Good and filling, we sat by the pool sea with our whisky and coke, stare at the stars and chit chat away. Went to bed contented and looking forward to a full day by the beach tomorrow.

Woke up slightly later, had a good breakfast and the hotel and walk to the beach at Indian Resort.

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We grab a good spot, slather on lotion and relaxed.

Had a whole day in the sun, snorkeling, relaxing by the beach, sleeping.. etc

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During my stay at the beach, I pondered upon many issues. Well, you know, there is pretty much nothing to do after many dips in the ocean, watching people passing by, checking out hunks with packs or without, chicks with bikinis, and there are only very few topless babes, so the rest of my time, if im not reading, im staring at the ocean day dreaming and just let my mind wander off. One of the frequent issues I kept coming back to is, how can I live like this forever? Typical tourist mentality im sure. Was having a discussion with hubby as well, and thought, well, we can work for a resort like this, nice place, clean, shouldn’t be too hard work, and on our off days we could just hang at the beach. Standard of living in Mauritius is something like Malaysia, food and necessities aren’t all that expensive, not bad eh…  we should write in and try to apply for jobs. Dang…. If only Berjaya still owns that resort there, maybe would have a better chance, but our Datuk Vincent recently sold it off… L Other stuff that I’ve thought about were pretty silly, thought about adopting a Mauritian kid! Hahahahahhaa…. Oh well.. life.. and its silly thoughts.. J

After half a day at the beach, we got hungry and its time to head off to town and find some food for out tummies. We put on some decent clothes (somehow walking around town in bikinis are frown upon, despite the number of tourist flocking this island) and we drove to the nearest town, Casa Noyale and Black River. Saw a little hut stopped, and discover they sold fried noodles! Just like the kind from our mamak stalls here! Wooohoooooooooooo…. Something apart from baguette and Indian rice is good! So we tried a portion, was not too bad. Tasted very different from ours, but still good. ! J

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On the way back to the hotel, we passed by a public beach. Was attracted by the HUGE amount of crowd there, mostly locals. We made an impromptu decision to make a quick pit stop and check out the local scene. As it was a public holiday, locals took this opportunity to take a short break. We were amazed they actually go by busses and it seemed like the go as a whole big family or even a while village! They brought camping necessities, tent, chairs, etc. They seem to really know how to have fun, they came with musical instruments, bongo & guitar, brought their home cook food, kids were having loads of fun, I do wish one of them would invite us to join them! Hehehehe..

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We bought some food there as well, baguette again, and local ice cream! Their ice cream sure tasted weird to me, with coconut toppings! Hehehe.. but it was good, especially on that very hot day.

 

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We went back to the beach, happy and contented with what we have bought for lunch. Slowly started devouring our food, drank beers and people watched. There were many giving a go at the water sports, very entertaining to watch. After that huge lunch, took a short nap, read a book, got really tan, and head back to the room for a nice hot shower and nap before dinner.

Dinner was good as usual, had lamb again. YuMmy.

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After dinner, we ordered a bottle of wine and chill by the pool side with some lounge music from the local band. It was surprisingly good!

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Had a good night rest, all geared up to do some dolphin chasing and swimming with them the next day.

Started the day really early, no time for breakfast at the hotel, so we had some biscuits with cheese and noodles in cup, and headed off early to Black River, where the boat is departing. We were on time, boarded the boat at 8am and wwwwweeeeeeeeeeee….. off we go.

Our skipper was really nice. He explained in detail the whole process, what we are expecting the whole day and how it works. Apparently we do not know where the dolphins would make an appearance, they have a pretty good idea, but still unsure. How it works is this. Few boats from companies as well will try their luck in a certain area. They will coordinate amongst themselves via handphone should any boat discover the dolphins locations. They did cautioned us that sometimes, if luck is not on our side, we may not see any dolphins at all, and would have to come back another day for free. Thankfully, it was just about a short 15 mins wait, they’ve got a call that a school of dolphin was spotted just after Flic en Flac area, and we raced there immediately.

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Before any of you nature protectors jump the gun, these skippers do take into considerations of preserving the natural habitat of these dolphins. We had a briefing on do’s and don’t and lengthy explanations on many issues. For example, we are restricted from touching the dolphins or feeding them. And we have to understand that the boat will only go within few metres of the dolphins for about 10 mins…. and we will back off and make way for other boats to go near. This is so that the dolphins do not get stressed out with so many boats around.  I think they are pretty amazing, gave us city folks an opportunity to get upclose and personal with the dolphins and yet trying their very best to preserve the natural habitat.

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After an hour plus of very surreal time at the open waters with those dolphins, we came near to Black River shore and had about half hour of snorkeling fun. Corals there was beautiful, and there were some nice fishes to see. Even manage to capture a lucky shot of a rainbow!!!

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We then headed to Bennicier Island. It’s a small, quiet and unpopulated island.

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Very little beach front, but good enough for a nice BBQ lunch by the ocean. Our skippers wasted no time and went to get a fire started for BBQ-ing our lunch.

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They serve us a nice rum cocktail and some snacks to keep us occupied while waiting. They took about an hour to cook, we pass time chit chatting among us and just chilling by the beach.

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The other 2 couples with us are from Belgium and France personally. It was interested communicating with people from very different countries. Although the French couple spoke very little English, but it was good enough to keep a healthy 3 way conversation going. We spoke about everything, holiday destinations, Mauritius, their respective countries, cultures, work.. etc. We even had a little idea sharing session on Dan Brown’s ideology. I was reading Dan Burstein’s Secrets of Angel’s & Demons, so that’s how it started. We even got excited and had a good laugh when a crab wonder into our pit.

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We had a good lunch, BBQ seafood on skewers, chick in sweet sauce, and fish, and some salad and banana flambé for desert. Was very satisfying having good food by the beach with perfect view, fresh food, good company and free flow of wine and rum cocktails. YUM!

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During lunch, a group of people came by to us, asking us to purchase some t-shirts. Initially we thought they were trying to sell those to us as souvenirs and was a bit reluctant, and then later they explained that the money will go to a petition fund to stop hoteliers from building hotels at this unexplored island. We were shocked to find out that there are only very few undeveloped beaches left around the Indian Ocean. Any little plot of land available are either developed or undergoing development. And currently, Bennicier Island’s lovers are trying to protect their little paradise. Oh well, how much truth in that is for them to know, we bought a T shirt anyway, for a good cause and as a souvenir. Cost us about RM40 only anyway, so not too pricey. J

Back on shore, we headed down south to Chamarel, to visit the 7 colored earth. The journey up the hill was quite stressful. Small road, with quite heavy traffic actually. But it was manageable. We reached a scenic stop 1st, was able to see a nice view of Le Morne area, mountain view, with very nice sea view too. All the way up, is a waterfall.

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We stopped and took some pictures there, and continued our drive to the colored earth.  As we reached, there was an entrance fee of 100 rupee, we thought it was expensive, as we are just there to see some coloured earth, but oh well, since we are there, might as well get it done. For my hubby, the coloured earth was nothing special.

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Through our naked eye, it was not even very colourfull. Mostly just look really brown and red. But then when we downloaded the picture into our laptop, it was actually quite amazing, we can see few tones of colours. For mother nature to product something like this, I think its pretty special. Those going to Mauritius, would still stand firm and say, its worth viewing. J

Went back to our hotel dead tired. I slept all the way in the car. Had a quick shower, napped and  went down for dinner. Dinner was the usual, with steak. Yummy!

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We then walked over to Indian Resort for the Sega Dance performance. Waited quite a bit for it, as we were early, we observed the crowd, was a huge variety of people from many different countries, mostly from India, France, European countries mostly, but very very very few Asians. We were probably the only Chinese couple. The only Asians are Indians.

Sega dance was something we enjoyed.

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3 lovely gals and a guy performed, it was very upbeat, lotsa ala belly dancing movements, flipping of big flowery skirt and musical instruments jiving together, it was amazing! The performance lasted about half an hour.

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We slept really really well that night, dead beat after a long long day.

Next day, was a road trip and sigh seeing packed day. We had breakfast and took a long drive to Port Louis. From Morne, took us about an hour. Port Louis was a little quite. We then realized that it’s a Sunday! Most shops were closed. But good thing is, traffic was easy, no need to brave through traffic jams!!

Churches were packed with people! They do have very very nice churches everywhere! :)

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We headed to the local market, was very colorful, buzzing with locals. We did not really stop and walk around as there nothing in particular that we would like to buy, just driving through slowly while trying to get some pictures from the car. We explored the town a little, went to China town, another small market there.

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Most shops were closed, we were a bit disappointed, was looking forward to try some Chinese food here. So we decided to walk down to the China Town market and see if we can buy some local Chinese food there. We were in luck!!!!! We spotted a very familiar sight.

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CHAR SIEW!!!!!!! BBQ-ed pork with sweet sauce! Hehehe… we bought some of it for tea time at the  beach later. It was pretty pricey, twice the price in KL, but we really wanted to try, so what the heck. RM25 for this.

We then drove to Caudan Waterfront, and walked around the area a bit.

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It was still early, and most shops opens at about 11am, so it was still pretty deserted. Walked around on our own, took some pictures, saw the Casino, went in for a peek and a quick illegal picture,

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and even went over to the shopping centre to purchase some souvenirs. Things are relatively expensive in this area (for us at least) but we manage to  bargain for some keychains at a good price, 4 for 200 rupees and some little boat for 100 rupee each, and I got myself a hat for 200 rupee. Happy with our buy, we  headed to pamplemouses for the trademark lotus pond.

We got a bit lost on the way, stopped and asked the friendly locals a little and finally arrived at the garden. Entrance fee was 100 rupee and the area was HUGE!!! We walked and walked and walked (silly me, wore heels that day!) and it was a very hot day. We finally found the all famous lotus pond, and took many pictures there. 

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There are other stuff to see along the way, but nothing as special as this lotus pond. After about an hour plus in the garden, we bought some lunch (baguette and stuffing’s again) at the stall nearby and headed up north to Grand Baie. On the way, we spotted a little stall BBQ-ing chicken, looked good, and we were still hungry.

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Bought some roast chicken with what else, baguette again, and continued our journey.

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Grand Baie reminded us very much of Pattaya, Thailand. It gave a very touristy vibe and beach life.

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We see people walking everywhere, mostly tourist and lot of restaurants and boutique. We drove all the way up north to Pereybere, scenery was beautiful. Pereybere was a little fishing town, still buzzing with some locals, but not as populated by tourist and amazingly, lotsa huge posh bungalows. These must be houses of the rich and famous, and celebrities from all over who visits Mauritius occasionally, it gotta be their holiday homes!!! We headed to La Plantation Resort, sister company of our hotel as well, under the Apavou Group. We wanted to check out the beach up north, wondering which beach is better, so we gate crashed into La Plantation. I used the oldest trick in the book, claimed we are staying there are barge into the hotel. Thankfully we brought our hotel towels along, being from the same group, they were exactly the same towel! :P La Plantation was just as nice as Indian resort, but a bit too crowded for my liking. At least our Le Mornea hotel is very new and still low occupancy. We headed to their private beach, laze out a bit, and took few dips in the ocean. I still preferred our beach down south, although a little bit more wind and sea sports, our beach was cleaner, sand was very fine and way bigger. Guess its personal preference. J

 

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After about an hour on the beach, we decided to head back and spend more time at our own beach instead. Suprisingly, the ride back was shorter than we expected, took us only about an hour 15 mins to reach back to morne, guess we were driving pretty fast, after having more confidence in driving through the tiny one laned road in Mauritius. J

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We spend the whole evening by the beach again, had the usual dinner and headed to Indian resort for some wine and checked out the band there. Our verdict, the band in Le Mornea hotel is way better than Indian Resort! J

The 2nd last day, sadness crept in a little. Its almost time to leave. We had breakfast in our hotel, and headed to Casella bird park. It shocked us how expensive it is. Entrance fee was about 300rs that is just normal entrance.

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For each activity, we are required to pay separately. And it was really expensive, to walk with the lions it was 5000 rupee if im not mistaken, and that was what I was there for! L And to make matters worst, it rained suddenly! 10 mins after we paid our entrance fee! We took shelter by a pond, watched the ducks, were there about half an hour. Feeling it was such a waste of time waiting there, we ran in the rain and went back to the counter, thinking that we can get a rain check refund or some back the next day. But the staffs rudely told us there was no refund and no coming back the next day. It did upset me a little, as most places in malaysia, and Thailand had rain check policy. They are not making any lost by allowing us to come back the next day right? Finally negotiated for us to come back later in the evening, as we really do  not want to sit all day in the bird park waiting for the rain to stop! We took a short drive to Quartre Bornes, went into Orchard shopping centre to take shelter and get some lunch. Had Indian mixed rice and baguette with fried chicken. Was really good.

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Drank some vodka lime coolers, felt a lot better. The rain did dampen my spirits a bit, but oh well, am just thankful out of so many days in Mauritius, this is the 1st day it rained.

We then went back to Casella, thankfully the rain stopped, but was a little bit gloomy.  We went in again, this time finally able to see some nice  birds and take some pictures.

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Overall, it was quite disappointing for us. There is practically nothing much. And we didn’t want to watch more money for the lions, headed back to Morne looking forward to some quality time by the beach again. 

Passed by some smaller towns, took pics whenever I see any interesting sights. One of them is this. Funky hairdo for little girls in school! :)

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Along the way, we saw this little cave converted into a small chapel.

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It was small and really sweet. Made a U turn, headed there to take some pictures. We assumed it was built by some of the sugar cane estate workers, touched my heart how a simple cave can be turned into such a sweet chapel, a spiritual getaway for those hard workers. J

Spent more time at the beach, had the usual dinner and wine at Indian Resort. Did not sleep really well that night, very sad that it was my last night in Mauritius.

 

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Next morning, our aim was to chill chill chill and chill by the beach all day. Absorb as much of the sun, beach, breeze and holiday air as we can. We had a hearty breakfast and headed to the beach.

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Tried more snorkeling, a few rounds of kayaking and lazing around at the beach.

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Took some pictures of the very clear water, will definitely will be missing this.

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Beaches anywhere is Malaysia is no where as clear and clean as this, and im feeling sadder by the minute. Lunch time,  we drove down town again (for the last time L ) to get some lunch. We had some simple rice and dishes and my hubby had noodles in beef stew. Was very yummy, but probably the most expensive lunch I’ve had here. My rice, mutton and a vege dish cost about RM25! (250 ruppee). Usual price in Malaysia is about RM5 max. But it was tasty, and my last lunch in Mauritius.

We head back to the beach again, some very last minute walks on the sand, drank a can of beer by the shore, and said our goodbyes to the lovely view, the mountain, fine sandy beach and the last moment of my honeymoon. We packed and started our drive, headed to the airport. At the airport, while waiting, we chatted with a nice couple from South Africa, learned a lot about their culture, and later chatted with a local Chinese Mauritian guy, gain perspective from the local dude, and felt it was a perfect end to our honeymoon.

As the sun set, we boarded our plane, and back to  home sweet home.

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I’m always going to miss Mauritius, I hope I will make it back there again someday!

 

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Fabulous Feb!

February 17, 2009 · 2 Comments

February has been the happiest month in 2009 so far. It kicked Jan’s ass, even though Jan had the CNY. Feb has my birthday, and valentines day and we did a Cameron Highlands trip! Despite all this, we are just in the middle of Feb, bet there are lots more happy events happenning soon!

So whats up with me? As pics flooded all over FB, im getting lazier to update my blog. Shame on me, yeah, it has been a great companion when times are down and lonely, I should treasure having a blog more often. I would need all this little pick-me-ups when Im old and wrinkly next time! :P

With the CNY gone and done with, life starts again. Work, bad economy, major decisions, basically… like Edward always say… life sucks and you die. But for me, life sucks, try to make it not suck so much… then you die!

To kick start the year, officially (cos i know everyone was just slacking in Jan, before the CNY), me and a bunch of friends took a short weekend trip to Cameron Highlands. It was by far the best group trip Ive ever had!

We left for KL after a big McD breakkie, at about 830am. Headed straight to Bidor town, for their famous wan tan mee and herbal duck! It was indeed super yummy! Though we were still full from McD, but we cant resist pigging out on those yummy local dishes thats so delicious!

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After early lunch, all stuffed and contented, we headed up to Cameron. As we were going uphill, the air gets colder and colder and I get drowsier and drowsier. Road was winding, was a lil bit nauseatic, apart from that… all’s good!! :)

Entertained myself along the way, to keep my mind off the nausea thats creeping up, I camwhore and enjoyed the breeze. Totally ruined my hairdo! But I loved it!

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 Upon reaching Cameron, we stopped for some sweet corns, oranges, vege and… camwhoring session full blast! hehehehe

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The apartment we rented was great. Country Lodge @ Brinchang. At only about RM600+ in total, all 12 of us cramped into 3 rooms and a hall! Amazing eh! But there is just so much more fun and comfort being together all the time, and not forgeting cost saving too! hehehehe

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At about 5pm, we started making dinner. Whats else to have on a nice evening with cold breeze and easy to cook? STEAMBOAT!!!!!!!!!! 

Thanks to hot mama Michelle who work the hardest on this delicious dinner. We bought loads of food, ended up with lotsa leftovers! But at least everyone is super full after at least 3 rounds each! My favourite tau kee is a must! Yum! Seeing these pictures now makes me hungry!

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After that huge and satisfying dinner, we chilled out and started drinking. Heres the amount of booze we had to conquer in 2 days. hahaha.. Both nights were very eventful, thanks to these booze.

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 We spent lotsa time exploring the town, visiting farms and parks, and camwhoring together. Everything there was strawberry, strawberry, strawberry! Me likey!! :)

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A must not miss Kea Farm. Its actually a long street of peddlers selling local stuff. Corn, vege, honey, flowers, everything so fresh and cheap!! I myself bought loads of vege and corn. Good for my diet now, been eating vege soup for dinner. Sadly, got hungry really quick and ate some other junk food before bedtime. Argh, where is the old will power I had?????

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The strawberry farm is of course a must not miss. Went plucking strawberries at the farm, really good experience. :)   It was really hard work and good exercise crawling all over the farm finding the biggest and juiciest ones. Being the kiasu me, i hunted high and low for all the biggest ones, assuming they were the sweetest. Not nessasarily true actually… :P

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Strawberry desert! YUM!!!!! There was a little cafe by the farm, of course serving everything to do with strawberries. Hungry from all the exercise I had plucking them early, had a huge cup of starberries & ice cream, topped with whipped cream! YUM  YUM YUMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!

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And as everyone knows, Cameron, the motherland of tea, there were just sheets and sheets of tea plantations all over! We chose to go to the all famous Boh Plantation. The ride up was quite a horror. The road was really small, was a very scary and stressful ride up. But, it was all worth it. The view was just simply breathtaking!

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Our last day was quite sad. I didnt want to leave such a cool and peaceful place. Did not want to go back to work and face the city stress. Just want to spend some quality time with close friends and laze away the day.

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 But every good thing has to come to an end somehow. So before leaving for KL, we went back to Kea Farm to buy vege, flowers and corn to stock up in kl. :P

And got hungry, last meal in Cameron. Traditional charcoal stamboat!!!! Very pricey though, but it was a good experience.

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So DONE with the Cameron trip, I still miss it loads, blogging about this actually makes me feel so nolstagic. Hahaha.. looking forward to more group trips this year!!!!!! Am working hard planning for another one now!

On with the next good thing.

5th February! My Birthday! :)

Sayang suprised me with a birthday cake! Was lazing in the room, not realizing he had a cake all this while in the car, and he said he is going down to do some gardening, and suddenly he walked in,singing the bday song with a cake!!!! I thought we were just having a simple dinner….. wat a suprise. :)

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He took me to this place in SS2. Its called The Cave. Some how its also known as the Couple Cafe & Restaurant. Jeezzz… to think that there is a restaurant catering just for couples? Isnt it prejudice?  oh well…. anyways, there was nothing much to shout about this place. Apart from the unique setting (duh.. the cave), food was just alright, service was slow and the place ooze out some kinda sad vibe…

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 Moving on now.. moving on

14th February 2009! Valentines Day! The day where love is in the air! The day where restaurants doubled their prices serving only couples set meal! The day where florist hike up prices for cheap flowers. The day where singles felt side lined and awkward!

Thankfully, my V day was nothing conventional. Together with a bunch of great friends, we decided to quit the mushy lovey dovey boring ol fine dining routine of v day, and decided that V day is all about love, and whats better than having to spend it with your other half, and also a whole bunch of friends! I truly believe I am lucky to be in a loving relationship where we treasure, respect and love each other so much, on top of that, we are both able to spend quality time together with a whole bunch of ppl we both love as well! This year, is truly the perfect Valentine. Its the spirit of love for my husband, my friends, who are more like my brothers and sisters, most of all, good food, drinks, decor and cherry topped by lotsa laughter! 

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We started early with the decor and cooking about 3pm. There was lotsa cutting of heart shapes, tying cloths, placing candle light stands, and final touches are lovely flowers from cameron that lasted all week!

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 Sayang was the chief chef, with help of sous chef Edward. Im truly proud of sayang. He single handedly made meals for all 11 of us. Soup, Main course, choice of lamb, steak or chicken. Its amazing of him actually, such energy. He was on his feet since 3pm, buzzing around in the kitchen, making everything so wonderfully prepared for the whole gruop. Im so proud of him! and… embarrased that Im not the one cooking.. but heck, its V day and the guys said they will be cooking and serving us all night! heheheh…

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Dinner was lovely. We chatted, laughed, eat, wined, the atmostphere was just like something out of a happy family drama. Ambience was perfect, nice decor, lighting but most of all, we felt at home. Though we were all dressed up in shirts & tie and ladies in dresses, we still felt very comfortable, in a place we could safely say,our 2nd home! :)

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Soup and main dishes…

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Deserts. No notti thoughts pls.. :)

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V day, was a memorable one, for me, and everyone of us!

Oh btw, despite me saying there is no need for flowers and present as V day is so over rated, Sayang still did get me a dozen of roses and a lil box of pressies containing all things Ive said I wanted and needed recently – A watch, 2 hair bands, 2 nail polish, 2 pairs of earings. I love my life… keeping my fingers crossed that things stay this way and hopefully get better day after day. :)

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Sinking economy?

February 10, 2009 · 1 Comment

No need to repeat what every newspaper, blogs, magazines and saying these days. But I find these few tips very useful.. :)

* Hard work: All hard work bring a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.

 

* Laziness: A sleeping lobster is carried away by the water current.

 

* Earnings: Never depend on a single source of income. [At least make your Investments get you second earning]

 

* Spending: If you buy things you don’t need, you’ll soon sell things you need.

 

* Savings: Don’t save what is left after spending; spend what is left after saving.

 

* Borrowings: The borrower becomes the lender’s slave.

 

* Accounting: It’s no use carrying an umbrella, if your shoes are leaking.

 

* Auditing: Beware of little expenses; A small leak can sink a large ship.

 

* Risk-taking: Never test the depth of the river with both feet. [Have an alternate plan ready]

 

* Investment: Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.

 

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Ironies of life…

January 20, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Saw an old man walking down the street last 2 nights, it was about 11pm. We were driving back home, it was right at the exit of a highway. There were no residential area close by, within 2km from where we were. As I saw the old pakcik, I wonder, where is he heading? Why is he alone late night? He was very dressed down in a old shirt, slacks and slippers. Was also carrying a little cloth bag. For a while, I had a thought of asking sayang to stop and give him a ride. Then suddenly, another thought came up, asking me what if he is dangerous, what if he is a con man, then start crying and be pathetic and asking us for money? What if where he is going will lead us to a band of theives? There was so many negative “what if’s”. By the time I am done with my thoughts, we were turning into another junction. Am I too cynical? Is the society and the high unrest cases driving me to become such a untrusting person? We were taught from young to ‘tolong menolong dan saling bantu membantu” But as we grow old, the horror stories we read everyday on the daily papers shows us the exact opposite.

- Of how kind souls were conned

- Of how anyone with a pussy got raped regardless how young or how old

- Of how people get hurt from getting mugged,  for just a couple of bucks, a handphone or a wallet?

- Of how kind people stop and help someone who looked like they had an accident got kidnapped and extorted all their savings

- Of how little kids got kidnapped, and till now some cases cant be solved

The list is endless, read the papers regularly and you can add on to this list yourselves. My point is, does anyone still stops by the road side to pick up someone by the road side, and honestly tell me they are not afraid of their own safety in return?

Ironic aint it… life? What we learned as a kid, simply cannot be practice as an adult. And I got a bloody A for Pendidikan Moral in SPM…..

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Marriage is like a key that unlocks all happiness.

January 15, 2009 · 1 Comment

Marriage is like the key that unlocks all happiness.

I truly believe in that…

Next is to make sure I dont lose the key… ever.

The wedding was.. oh la la… :)    But once a lifetime, is really.. sufficient.

Here are some pics from the wedding.

31st December 2008, the last day of the year. However the year sucked so bad, this day, brought it up to the 1st rang in the ‘good year’ ladder.

Morning started… nauseatic. Was 5am, I barely slept a wink, nervous, excited, anxious, everything at once. Its a weird feeling not having Kevin sleeping beside me cuddling me as he does every night, but instead, my auntie was beside me snoring away….  Then I have this weird feeling of being away from him, that just one night. Its strange, i’ve been away over nights from Kevin before, but this time it was just.. strange. And i lovedddddddddd the feeling that i cant wait to see him the next morning, cant wait for him to come ‘redeem’ his bride and from then on.. i just cant stop thinking, hence no sleep.

Well the day then begins, did my mask as instructed by my perfect make up artist, and had a hot drink as instructed by my auntie, and had some mee suah as instructed by mom… i left everything in the hands of ppl around me. :)

Make up time finally… :)

Cant remember much what I felt throughout that 2 hours of make up. All i recalled was plenty of sms and calls from friends asking for directions, one of the ji muis came up asking me answers to some questions they were gonna use to ask Kevin, and off and on friends and relatives pop in to check on me.

And in like just a blink of an eye, im all dolled and dressed up, and… looking for friends to camwhore with me!

Then there was the anxious wait for Kevin & heng tais to arrive.

Poor Kevin attempting to climb over the gate!

When they finally did, they were asked to do many funny things, eat and drank disgusting stuff… and then do some yoga poses… i wished i was downstairs watching all this…

These are the poor ‘heng tai’s that endure lotsa pain & embarassement for us! THANKS GUYS! MUACKS!

Once all the commotion was over, off we go to Kevins house….

Was really thankful for the good weather, no rain, nor was it too hot, make up still intact, lots of breeze… alls good! :)

The 1st half of my wedding was over… really quickly. Barely remember much of it. Thank goodness for the tons of pictures friends and trusted photographers took. :)

Now comes the dinner part. There was quite a rush to ensure decor, F&B, registration tables/list and all were ready, this is where I regretted not hiring a wedding planner. There was just so much to do and looked into, and no one to help!! However, thankfully my event planning nature kicked in and Kevin was on top of everything while I was doing my make up, everything was running smoothly by the time the guests started to trickle in.

THe theme of the event, Black & Pink!

My 2nd outfit… :P

All dolled up with a wig and tiara… I feel like a princess. Its exactly what I imagined, the perfect shade of pink, fuchsia pink…

When I looked back at all these pictures, then I can recall vividly how happy and lucky I felt. To have a wonderful husband who sees to my every wish so sincerely and full heartedly. This is indeed, something money cannot buy.

From my endless complaining and whining to my childish tantrums and ridiculous demands, he strived on to ensure I get my dream wedding. It was all just perfect. Parents too was truly joyous as everyone showered us with so much compliment and best wishes. :)

And then…. we had the best countdown of our lifes! Partying with friends, starting 2009 with a big bang.

 

Those last few months, revolved aruond nothing but wedding wedding wedding. Was truly the most stressful period of my life, but it was all so worth it! Again, cant thank sayang enough for being such a sweetie to plan us a short break right after the Penang wedding, to Langkawi.

Had a superb time there, just chilling out with my favourite person in the world!

And as Langkawi is all famous for, BOOZE HEAVEN!!! We were drinking every single day we were there (3 nights) and well… almost every hour or so. Beer instead of water! Thanks to that, Ive gained 2kg itself just over that weekend, and a stubborn beer belly!

Even chilling out by the beach, brought along my trusty companion Malibu iced, and Meryl’s mint cream! YUM!!!

It was truly a refreshing retreat.

We spent a lot of time under the sun, by the beach… and…. i cut my hair short.. :)

Whole new year, whole new me, whole new chapter of life!

We had a superbly romantic dinner in porto malai on the last night there. Very memorable experience. The food was good, the service was good, dining by the jetty, watching yatchs, listening to the sea breeze and smelling the ocean, made this evening such a special one.

I love being married…

Will take good care of my key… :)

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Life goes on…. only better! :)

January 8, 2009 · 3 Comments

Its finally OVER!

The wedding i mean.. not the marriage.. :)

It was absolutely so perfect. The crowd, the music, the decor, the gowns, the make up, the hair, ….. everything was just how i imagined it to be… no better! ( I imagined many horror boo boo’s).

Now that everything is behind me, i felt this serene sense of peace, and belonging. A big portion of my life was successfully completed. Went through my baby days, childhood days, eventful teenage days, tons of courtship days, many flings, few relationships, and most of all, succeeded in conning a loving and responsible guy to marry  me. Heheheheheheh… :P

Looking back on 2008, everyone has those list of good stuff, bad stuf, etc etc. I tried to have that, but somehow I go blank… do not know what to write, as what i wanted to write, was in most ppl’s blogs! Seriously.. are we all facing the same realization?

1) Many mentioned to be close to family especially parents! Wow, are there so many ppl around my age that has this gap they would like to close? Or is it just them writing for the sake of showing off that they are working on their relationship with their folk? On my own plate, I have a sucky relationship with my parents. Period. Them being divorced, i see each of them less than 10 – 15 times a year i guess.. about once a month or so. So im serious when i declare i need to work harder here…

2) Many of them too mentioned they have been betrayed by friends, learned about some back stabbing incidents, etc etc. Again, im dazed… are they living my life? Or again, is everyone around my age being betrayed, or going around doing it without realizing? Its impossible that all of us are just betrayed… then who are those doing it? Strange eh… but here, again on my own plate, i can genuinely say that i do experienced major dissapointments from friends, well so called friends who back stabbed, plotted together to put me down, spread lies, made used of me and ditch me at crucial moments, yada yada yada. Short of murdering me, they caused pain and sleepless nights. But now… what can I do? Yes, its best to forgive and forget… thats why my life’s way better.. :)

3) Then, the one thing im glad everyones blog has is to recap how much joy and fun they had in 2008! :) that truly puts a smile on my face, knowing that everyone realizes its not all bad. I myself had a blast in 2008. Too many to mentioned, but most obvious would be us buying a new house, moving into the new house, starting our lives together, getting married, best countdown ever in my life and most importantly, many more years of happiness to look forward to, all expected to be way better than 2008

On with 2009…..

Now… whats next? Life goes on? Yes… it does… it has to.. But.. only better… way better!

Being married actually has no significant impact to my life.. or who I am. Can say that for Kevin as well. But one very big change is the commitment we have to each other… to make this work. I cant freak out, run and hide (or jump ships) anymore…. thats a fact I have to accept. Well, can vouch for how well I would perform in this 2nd stage of my life, but I can promise that I would try hard to make things work.

FOr those married gals out there, am sure you know exactly what im trying to say. hehehehe..

Would like to share some long pending pictures, curtesy of John Ishii and Jen Siow.

I call this Pre Wedding with a Twist!

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Forgive and Forget

December 22, 2008 · Leave a Comment

Its 9 days away from the wedding, nerves are getting better of me, had some sleepless nights, silly thoughts of what might screw up and… the constant question shot at Kevin “Am I a fat bride?” Am trying my very best to not to think about all the horrible things that can go wrong, but its really hard, especially after me messing up my own hen’s night.. which brings me to what moves me to write this post… forgive and forget…

It’s sometimes easy to forget how important friends are until you realised you can lose them overnight, and believe me, it can be very scary. Pissed off my bunch of gal pals when i got drunk on my hens night, correction… got drunk before my hens night even started! Yes, ironic eh.. me.. knocking off and checking out at 10pm. Well.. i guess shit happens. Naturally the gals were mad, who wouldnt be, i was all bratty and annoying and all the effort and time wasted on planning it went down the drain. I slept it off woke up with a nasty hangover and started sms-ing to appologize and most didnt reply, thats when it hit me, i screwed up so bad that i might lose their friendships. Alls back to normal now.. but after tons of sms, calls begging for forgiveness, i understand they wanted me to know i cant take their friendship for granted. Pheww.. wat a relieve.

Then, I also remembered and read on a someones blog, a someone who used to be a best friend, who hurt me so much that i decided to cut him off… and who has been ’subtly’ trying to make it up. And ive decided… yes, its time to forgive and forget.

And.. it felt real good.

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Weddings and etc

December 9, 2008 · 3 Comments

So this long weekend have been really fruitful. Done some cooking, some baking, some drinking, some karaok-ing and some shopping.

Ended up losing my voice… but.. its all worth it.

Its just 3 weeks away.. what is? THE WEDDING!!!!

Lots have been done… (i guess), not sure what else to do actually. But looks like we have got it all covered. In the midst of finalizing the guest list… and… maybe calm my nervous, tie my bloody stomach so that I would stop eating!!!!!!!!!!

Oh well, guess bring a brize-zilla aint so bad… sigh

Went shopping with the gals yday for the bridesmaid outfit. Glad they found something they both liked and within my budget too!!!! Muacks! Thanks gals! Ate sooooooooo much yday, from one place to another, snacking and pigging out, but I would still say it is all worth it! :)

Coming up, lots more last minute planning for the wedding, finalizing the decor, the make up and accesories, 2 more photoshoots, and all set to party!!!!!

After the Penang wedding, we are jetting off to Langkawi Porto Malai for a quick getaway!!! I’m gonna chop off my long long hair and come back with a really different and new look… scary… yet exciting at the same time… we’ll see… :)

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